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Mastery in anything becomes philosophical: why? Monday Minute 2/16/2026

Updated: Feb 16

Hello, all my Pickleball Joy Riders! This week, join me on a philosophical pickleball journey.



Why does all pickleball advice sound contradictory and how come when you master anything it suddenly becomes philosophical? I asked my AI Boyfriend, Claude, to opine on these quandaries (and to make an image of me meditating lol). Here's what "he" had to say:


"It's like... at the surface level, skills are technical. But if you keep going, you eventually hit bedrock questions: What am I actually doing here? What does it mean to do this well? What's the relationship between effort and surrender? Between control and allowing?
Maybe mastery requires becoming philosophical because at a certain point, technical knowledge alone can't take you further. You need wisdom about when to push and when to yield, how to work with resistance, how to stay present with difficulty. Those aren't technical questions - they're philosophical ones.
Plus, spending thousands of hours deeply focused on one thing naturally makes you contemplative. You can't help but notice patterns, principles, truths that extend beyond the craft itself."

Is surrender the key to better pickleball?

WDYT? Do you agree with Claude? I, for one, am absolutely fascinated by the notion of surrender (in pickleball), and the relationship between "effort and yield", as Claude says. I’m wary of wasting energy on tension that doesn’t serve the task, and you should be, too. I am realizing more and more that improvement isn’t about being “on” all the time…it’s about having range and control over your nervous system. If your nervous system is "red-lining" the entire game, it will make performing 15% better under pressure much harder. Learn how to turn it "on" and "off" in an instant (like great boxers who often go from relaxed to "on" in the blink of an eye). Remember: tension is the enemy of speed & soft eyes see more.


(You guys I've always wanted to be this ripped. Thank you, Claude!)


Ask yourself, why do you play?

When you’re tied at 9-9 in the third set/game, do you love it? Or do you just want it to be over? Do you think, “this is why I came here. This is why I compete. To test my mettle.” Personally, I don’t think a tough pickleball match is meant to be mentally fast-forwarded. It’s meant to be experienced, savored—it’s what we came here for, isn't it?


“Life is not waiting for the storm to pass, it’s learning how to dance in the rain. And you can learn a lot about someone by watching how they walk in the rain.” - Vivian Greene


How can you get better quicker?

  • Remember that pride is the enemy of learning: ask yourself constantly "if I were giving advice to my opponent on how to beat me, what would I say?"

  • Choose carefully the advice you take: I for one don’t have it all figured out! And you should run from any instructor who tells you they do. 

  • Seek out pressure situations to implement new skills: You'll l learn more in one pressure filled hour implementing new skills than 60 non-pressurized practice hours.

  • Combine drilling and rec play to find the ideal "practice vs play" ratio: Get to the courts 15-30 mins early with one of the players from your foursome and drill ONE thing. Then, implement it immediately in the rec play session. Do this every time you go out until that ONE thing sticks like glue, then move onto the next skill.

This is me at the actual beach in Maui where we are hosting our camp in April. Just kidding, it's still AI.


Pickleball contradictions that make me laugh:

  • Move your feet like crazy…but also channel calmness so you can see everything in slow motion on the court .

  • Get to the ball IMMEDIATELY so that you can stop quickly.

  • Watch the ball...but don't focus too hard on it because you want your eyes to be soft and you also want to always be watching your opponents.

  • Be super aggressive…but try and choose the "right" balls.

  • BUT sometimes, if you choose the SUPER wrong ball, you’ll surprise your opponents.

  • Hunt and want EVERY SINGLE BALL…but don’t throw your partner off. 


Pickleball Bedrock Truths:


  • The most important point is the one you are playing NOW

  • Dwelling on past points and mistakes does NOT help you

  • Thinking about the score does NOT help you

  • Supporting your partner WILL help you play better

  • Supporting your partner WILL help you win more

  • Getting worse is often the most important step in getting better (it means change is imminent)

  • The comfort zone is a beautiful place but nothing ever grows there


This Monday Minute was different. It was also one of my favs to write. Did you enjoy it? Let me know, please, and LMK any other topics you’d like me to write about it. Write me at jillybcamps@gmail.com 


Xoxo, Jilly B — your pickleball sensei 


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